Modern culture has no intention at all of helping you to Grow Up.

Modern culture could not function if it was populated with Grown Ups.

Modern culture depends on its citizens having their Adult Egostate contaminated by their Child Egostate and their Parent Egostate, so that those with Gremlin-contaminated Adult Egostates can defend their power positions in the various hierarchical power structures and keep the slaves (employees) and Zombies (the unemployed) under control.

Modern culture's greatest fear is of individuals who have taken back their Center, their Voice, their Authority, who can Change their Mind and Say What they Want, and Invent and Inhabit new Gameworlds in a culture of their own making.

The problem for modern culture is that when a person actually Grows Up, they take Radical Responsibility for their world. This means they no longer have a need or desire to attack or fight against the existing obsolete Gameworlds. Instead, they invent and inhabit new Gameworlds that leave the existing Gameworlds behind in the dust as irrelevent and boring.

More than three-hundred-and-fifty million Cultural Creatives around the world ogoingly launch themselves into new dimensions of human creation through Upgrading their Skills and Thoughtware. All this happens beneath the radar of modern culture.

Here are strong indicators that you are not growing up:

• You still live at your parents' home, use their money, owe them money, or have any of your stuff at their house.
• You speak or visit with your mom or dad more frequently than once every 6 months.
• You hold onto the idea that it is possible to be a Victim.
• You experience being offended or 'triggered' into emotional, energetic, or intellectual Reactivity.
• You feel justified in exploding or imploding with your Emotions.
• You think it is possible to have a 'problem'.
• You listen to praising or blaming Voices in your head as if they were more real than farts in the wind.
• You believe that your unmet childhood needs can still be met, instead of recognizing they are memories from the past, no more possible to fulfill than remembering long ago being thirsty and thinking that drinking 2 liters of water now will make your memory of being thirsty go away.
• You try to be a 'good' person, 'nice', 'trustworthy', adapting to what you imagine others prefer, rather than being yourself.
• You naively think that other people are 'good'.
• You vindictively think that it is possible to be 'right' or 'wrong'.
• You 'absentmindedly' make Assumptions, forgetting that making an Assumption is the first step towards taking Revenge.
• You still use your Gremlin as part of your defense/attack strategy, instead of as an Infinite Resource of Nonlinear Possibility for creating New Results.
• You hold onto the fairy tale that the government will take care of you through medicare or by 'protecting your country' from 'evil nations'.
• You think of your birth religion or birth culture as 'right' or 'good', and others as 'foreign cultures'.
• You believe that what a person believes has value, instead of recognizing that anyone can believe anything about anything for any conscious or unconscious reason, and that a belief and 50 Cents will get you on the bus.
• You catch yourself wishing for 'safety' or 'having security' which are childhood Fantasy Worlds. As Helen Keller observed, "Security does not exist in nature. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing."
• You think that money or jobs come from 'other people', and that others will give them to you if you can only be adaptive enough to their wishes.
• You seek other people's opinion about what you should do next.
• You use 'fish thoughtware'. (When fish reach the edge of the school, they reflexively spin around and head back into the center of the school.)
• Your fear stops you from speaking instead of signaling to you that you have something valuable to say.
• You blame other people for not accepting or understanding you.
• You keep a checklist of things to achieve to please others, or to be seen as 'successful'.
• You are in scarcity of... anything.
• You try to survive in meetings and stay safe in the group, rather than entering each space as a pot of delicious stew looking to ladle yourself into the next bowl.
• You make messes and do not clean them up.
• You justify your decisions to yourself or to others using Reasons.

Until now, your Survival Strategy has prevailed. Since you are not dead yet, your Survival Strategy was successful... at permitting you to Survive. It has done nothing towards supporting you to actually come forward and live. For that, you would need to leave your Survival Strategy behind like an acorn seed leaves behind its shell when it sprouts into being a tree, like a butterfuly leaves behind its chrysallis when it hatches out to fly.

Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes were banished from the modern Patriarchy some 6000 years ago. What this means is that Survival Strategy remnants, Old Decisions, and unconscious habits remain in you from lifetimes of never being initiated into Authentic Adulthood.

Fortunately now, since 1975, teams of Possibilitators have been developing processes that help heal and empower newly emerging Adults, including the deeply rooted neurotic patterns desperately implemented to try to establish some kind of personal health and well being.

Growing Up now could begin when you are 18 years old. This is the age by which you have probably established enough Matrix in your Being to hold the rapid growth of Responsibility and Consciousness that occurs during Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes.

The Possibility Management contribution to your Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Process consists of a number of crucial dimensions:

• Thoughtware Upgrades.
• Emotional Healing Processes (EHP).
• Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes.
• Nonmaterial Creation Skills.
• Gremlin Transformation Skills.
• 5-Body Inner Navigation, Radical Relating and Communication Skills.
• Space Cavitation and Space Navigation Skills.
• Torus Meeting Technology Skills.
• Gameworld Building and Demolition Skills.

We explore each of them separately in a brief overview below.

Using the Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware (S.H.I.T.) as provided by modern culture guarantees that no Authentic Initiation will occur for you. S.H.I.T. thoughtware means you are still entrenched in the neurotic beliefs of the Old Thoughtmap Of Feelings, with Contaminated Egostates, unconscious Gremlin, misidentifying yourself as your Box, with your childhood Survival Strategy in full and panicky control trying to keep things the same. You will learn nothing new and become nothing new.

There are over 650 websites freely available to you at StartOver.xyz (listed at https://spaceport.mystrikingly.com) online 24 hours a day 365 days a year all around the world giving you for free an entire thoughtware upgrade to the Context of Archiarchy. But since you probably went to school, you have little discipline and no aptitude for learning, so you will only find ways to cheat your way through the Experiments avoiding the Memetic Liquid States of true Thoughtware Upgrade.

The most effective way we have ever found that is powerful enough to confront your Gremlin-defended Survival Strategy and cause a true Archan Thoughtware Upgrade is a 5-day Expand The Box training.

This, of course, does not accomplish all the Thoughtware Upgrades needed for Authentic Adulthood Initiations, but it does cause a Break In Certainty in your Box and provides enough core Thoughtware Upgrades to open the Doorway to your Authentic Adulthood Initiations and introduces you to the archetypal Path of evolution.

Learning to Consciously Feel will be the start of your Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes.

Any so-called 'initiation' that does not start with and continue to orbit around you consciously experiencing and expressing your 4 Feelings and 4 Emotions will not be powerfully present enough to make a Crack In Certaintly in your intellectually reinforced Survival Strategy. Your efforts will leave you no better off than you were before, regardless of how 'cool' the spaceholder is, how many drugs are involved, or how much money you pay.

Your authentic ability to Consciously Feel will be the Doorway to most of your successful Emotional Healing Processes.

Being able to Consciously Feel will also be central to nearly EVERY Authentic Archan Adulthood Initiation.

If you have not Stellated Anger, Sadness, Fear, and Joy to 100% intensity in 100% purity, your Initiations cannot proceed. They will stumble pitifully and leave you behind. Stellating - as well as hundreds of additional Authentic Adulthood Initiations - is delivered in Possibility Labs.

We know of no other source for the Distinctions and Processes just described than Expand The Box training and Possibility Labs. We wish there were thousands of sources, but 'til now, we know of none other.

When it comes to Growing Up, learning to Consciously Feel is first and foremost. Period.

Read the Four Feelings book by Valerie Lankford. Read and discuss it outloud with your friends. Then practice.

Study and practice the exercises in the Conscious Feelings book by Clinton Callahan.

Attend Expand The Box training, then participate once or twice a week in Rage Clubs and Fear Clubs and Heart Gym and EHP Dojos until your personal Emotional Healing Processes easefully roll to their full heights and depths.

After you Build Matrix through hundreds (YES! HUNDREDS!) of your own personal EHPs that remove your Energetic Blocks and retrieve the scattered parts of your Being and change your Past Life Vows and bypass your Mind Machines and build your Inner Structure you will step-by-step become fit enough to provide EHPs for others.

This is glorious work! So much joy and healing.

Would you hire someone to repair your car or do heart surgery in your chest if they had not fixed hundreds of cars or performed hundreds of successful heart surgeries already? No! That would be insanely naive! Avoid the temptation of going into a Fantasy World that diminishes the seriousness and value of EHPs for yourself and others.

Archiarchy is a new world. You can have a new life, if you want it, if you create it and move into it. The more you respect, and learn to become absurdly effective at, navigating and delivering EHPs, the more your life will fill up with potentials for alivesness that you may never even imagined were possible.

Indigenous Inititions are very different from Archan Initiations. Indigenous Inititions have a different purpose and a different procedure that does not match the current circumstances and needs.

Indigenous Initiations remove your Point Of Origin from your mother and place it into the traditions of the existing culture, so you know how to plant your food, how to build your house, which songs to sing at birth and at death. This would be a valid Adulthood Initiation if the cultural traditions are noble, and the circumstances are not changing. In today's world neither of these situations are true. Modern culture is not noble. It uses hierarchical power structures in government and economics, and those hierarchies have been hijacked by those most capable of doing whatever it takes to climb the ladder and take power positions - the psychopaths. (By now, this should be obvious: Netanyahu, Biden/Trump, Putin, Assad, Xi Jinping, Kim Jong Un, Bolsonaro, Khamenei, Macron... on and on.) And nearly nothing in the 21st Century is stable. Indigenous Initiations would only promote the extinction of life on Earth.

21st Century Earth requires new kinds of Authentic Adulthood Initiations. Where do these next culture Inititions come from? Who creates them? Who delivers them?

What we are certain of is that each of these next-culture Initiations removes a person's Point Of Origin from their mother and places directly into their own Center, making them Radically Responsible for what is being Initiated.

Possibility Management has been researching, developing, and delivering this next culture - Archan  - style of Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes since 1975. They are all Copyleft, open-code thoughtware (CC BY SA 4.0 Int'l) so anyone around the world can learn to deliver them. Our best, most up-to-date and complete Initiatory Process writups are posted on the website https://pmprocesses.mystrikingly.com.

Since the culture of Archiarchy is an evolutionary Gameworld, it is also evolving. New Archan Initiatory Processes are being discovered, delivered, and documented along the way, even now as you read these words. There is no curriculum. There is no method. These are the Authentic Adulthood Initiations on the Path to next culture Adulthood.

Modern culture is oriented towards the material world. This is clear regarding what modern culture values, for example, possessing material objects such as titles to land, deeds to real estate, stocks and bonds, money, jewels, gold, fancy cars and technology, etc. What is not so clear is that modern culture teaches material skills. You were taught to stand, eat, walk, talk, tie your shoes, kick a ball, use a phone, write with a pen, ride a bike, drive a car, put a charge card through a vending machine, smoke cigarettes... If you are female, perhaps you were also taught to clean toilets, mop the floor, wash and iron clothes.

Few people in modern culture are taught skills of growing grains, fruit and vegetables, preserving food, making leather, working with animals to haul loads, spinning thread and yarn from hemp or wool, weaving cloth, sewing, knitting, crocheting, carving and building with wood, smeltering metals, black-smithing, welding, basket weaving, plumbing, electrical wiring and repairs, archery, sword-making, rebuilding motors and engines, on and on. If we need something we are taught to order it from Ikea or Amazon with our Credit Card, and keep working our corporate job to pay for it. Call up a repairman to fix anything that breaks. Buy cheap plastic shit from Asia.

Modern culture has no awareness of the Nonmaterial Skills that we are not taught.

Just because you do not know about something, does not mean it does not seriously influence the quality of your life.

You know this if you ever learned about something you did not know that you did not know about.

We offer you over 650 websites, books, trainings, articles, workshops, WorkTalks, video recordings, audio recordings, dojos, inviting you to learn Nonmaterial Skills that modern culture knows nothing about. Nonmaterial Creation Skills make use of Infinite Energetic Resources, so there is no need for scarcity, competition, I win you lose Gremlin games about the most important and interesting and entertaining things in life. Welcome to Archiarchy.

If Gremlin is not distinguished and named and faced in setting the Context of a Space, then Gremlin controls that Space.

Gremlin will be immediately and ongoingly present. Gremlin will not be avoided, and will enthusiastically undermine Integrity and Commitment. There is no Dad, no Police, no Adulthood presence, only adolescent levels of Responsibility, as demonstrated by modern culture.

Uninitiated Gremlin will unstoppably occupy and therefore Contaminate your Adult Egostate. You do not get to be Present, because your Gremlin is in command.

Until you Decontaminate your Adult Egostate from Gremlin Egostate, Child Egostate, Parent Egostate, or Demon Egostate, your Adult Egostate remains Contaminated.

This means that you cannot occupy your own Adult Egostate, because the space is already filled.

This means that you are blocked from entering the Archetypal Domains. You cannot enter into Radical Relating, or experience 5-Body Intimacy Journeys.

This means you are blocked from taking Adult Level Responsibility, so you are stuck living in Child Level Responsibility or Gremlin Level Responsibility in all your interactions and creations.

In technical terms,'Your life is shit'.

You have no Integrity. Your Word is worthless. You cannot Take A Stand for anything. Your world is twisted by Hidden Competing Commitments.

Until you do your Gremlin Transformation work, Adulthood remains out of your reach.

Your Adulthood Path of Initiations begins with accomplishing your Gremlin Transformation work... not merely understanding the concept...

An unitiated person who attended school would approach the above examples as a curriculum checklist. As fast as possible they would superficially bounce through spaces of possible Initiation staying too wiggly to be transformed, checking the items off as they go along, thinking that if some 'teacher' gives them 'good grades' then they would have 'passed the tests' and can now 'move up' to the next level and 'be initiated'.

Nothing could be farther away from reality.

The Path of Evolution is the Path of Evolution because of the reality of Evolution. Human Beings are designed to evolve. Modern culture is designed to block the Evolution of Consciousness.

Doorways to Evolution are not part of a curriculum of topics to discuss. Doorways lead to new Spaces that are Memetically Contexted in Transformation.

If this is you, stop now. Do not try to fool yourself into thinking you are Growing Up. It does not work.

Do not think you can use the 'innoculation theory' of initiation... "I got that initiation, so now I am 'immune' and don't have to do that again..." You will only waste your money, and our time and energy.

Too often we have painfully watched 'good hearted' and 'intelligent' people go through 10 Possibility Labs and many Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) only to remain so trapped inside of their childhood Survival Strategy that their relationship with the world did not change. It is a sad and frustrating thing to face. Please do not let this happen to you.

Egostate Contamination, Disjointment, Past Life Vows, and lack of Inner Structure are powerful ways to avoid Authentic Adulthood Initiation. These techniques can be re-engineered so that Adulthood Initiation is possible.